Rapper Rick Ross says he doesn't sign women because he expects to sleep with them
As a professional, I would say it is great that he understands his flaw, but we polish flaws we do not mock them. Especially with the employment market being what it is for our men and women.
I get that its pay to play with him.A predator is a predator. My quandary is do we vilify him for feeling that way or applaud him for choosing not to prey? I am sure there are others not as honest, just puff puff passing these young women (and men) around. There has to be some redeeming valiance in him saying that he knows what he is so he doesn't even mess around like that.
If you hear his quote on the Breakfast Club, he's clearly stating that if he pays for a woman's photoshoot, he expects sex for that. This isn't fair to women who are trying to get ahead in the industry but can't get an opportunity because men feel they are owed sex because they gave you an opportunity. These dudes need to chill, this is not healthy behavior and a lot of them are carrying all kinds of crazy STDs.
I see it a little different. I take it as Ross saying that he understands his own shortcomings enough not to let it mess up his dream in the long run. He is mature enough to recognize that he is a womanizer and not put himself or a woman in position to be victimized by it. I think saying he should be able to "get passed it" is like saying an alcoholic should be able to "get over it". My daughters always ask me why dont I have snacks in my house. I'm grown I should be able to control myself, but I know better, Hi I'm CJ and I'm a snack-aholic. I'm not trying to marginalize the issue, only saying if he cant do it without predator inclinations then its best for everyone that he doesnt do it.
Some people go for the money....some go from their Spirit...
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